– look at their handwriting
– read their favourite book and search for pieces of them within the pages
– listen to their music and let it resonate with you
– go to their favourite place
– stay up ‘till 3am and let them spill their heart out to you
– ask them unusual questions that you never even thought would intrigue you
– spend a day with them doing nothing
– look out for the things they subconsciously do when they’re happy
– watch how their smile forms
– go through old photos with them
– use their body wash when you shower at the persons place (truly, you’ll feel it)
– talk to their parents, grandparents or siblings
I love the ones added ❤
-Make them laugh and learn their different laughs (my personal fave to share with someone is the sleepy-drunk laugh)
– make art with them, sitting in the silence just drawing or painting, or having deep conversations while making art, both realllyyy connect them
– spent time with their pets (but not too much because they might be jealous)
– notice how they squeeze the toothpaste bottle.– let them tell you their dreams and ask if you can look it up for them, share the results.
– learn their impulse buys/decisions
^^^ ahhh these are so cute!!
how to really get to know someone:
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